What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch filled with attention and presence, without a standard kind and predetermined outcome. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. Obviously, always with respect for (mutual) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, overjoyed state of being. The impact is typically a terrific physical, mental well-being. Typically, the receiver is extremely unwinded, splendidly streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and presence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. The majority of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The hands of the provider are connected with his/her heart. The touch is loving, constantly concentrated on the wellness of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and receives active and also feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be loving!
Complete of attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch full of attention and existence. Don't look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are actually out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't about an established outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. It is not the technique or the preferred series of massaging that is essential, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that exactly what is needed.
Tantric massages for that reason often take an extremely surprising course. Whatever suits a bigger whole. For example, a tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the primary step in a terrific advancement.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limits
We understood it for a very long time, obviously, however given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually shown up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both giver and receiver always should be guaranteed. Loving attunement always comes.
Set clear limits ahead of time
It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is likewise completely okay (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have actually given/received many tantric massages only on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let circulation freely
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ production/ intuitive energy.
Focused on the natural happy state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage belongs to "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life focused on growing in love and consciousness. In a split 2nd you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but typically, that is a procedure in time. Tantra understands various techniques to utilize on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no function aside from self-realization: restoring the natural (happy) state of being.
Typically resulting in a terrific physical, mental wellness
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is typically nice, often tasty. We, for that reason, invite you to fully enjoy getting ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of kinds of massage. Obviously, all massages have particular practices and strategies in common. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (targeted at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (aimed at healing).
Well since you are actually super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, but therapy is a profession apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the post on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer excellent conditions (physically, however also mentally).
* Explain contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand free, don't press or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Don't just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every so often ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Use your senses.
* Provide feedback (satisfaction noises?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) minutes.
Some masseurs are more/mainly concerned with what they themselves discover enjoyable, fun, preferable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "needs", remain away from your own issues and above all ... do not try to force anything. Nothing needs to be done, absolutely nothing is needed! Once again, don't aim to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe Lodon Tantric you are dissatisfied when someone drops off to sleep. You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no goal. No intended outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage suggestions (insights/rules).
* Don't work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy flow.
* Respect boundaries, set clear borders in advance. Our masseuses are primarily very open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, obviously. However, understand that it can end up in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the whole body. Being aroused is typical and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can come up.
* Be alert to restored freezing moments. Prevent limits from being crossed again.
* Action by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Enjoying the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and offer integration minutes (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply don't rush towards the weather ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy construct and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (often completely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing impact. Even though tantra massage is not the same as recovery, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you discover exactly what it resembles to enjoy yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that provides a wonderfully liberating and deeply satisfied sensation.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The whole body participates.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (mutual) boundaries.
* Develops a (heart) connection in between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Generally resulting in a terrific physical, mental wellness (of both).